To the Perseverance of Friendship

Good friends are hard to find. I thought they were also harder to keep. My BFF and I have kind of drifted apart since college. She lives in the desert of Arizona and I in the hills of Tennessee. We are married with children and careers. Before either of us realized it, four years had passed since we had last seen each other.

But, for the grace of God, she called me out of the blue and said she was coming to visit. Out of nowhere a girls weekend to Atlanta was planned. It couldn’t have been better timing for me. I desperately needed to remember who I was before I was a mommy.

The three and a half hour road trip from Nashville to Atlanta was the perfect amount of time for us to catch up. By the time we checked into the W Downtown, the four years that had separated us had faded away and I felt a bit like my old self from college. I have to admit, it was nice to connect with a friend who knew me as just “me” and not as “wife of J” or “mommy to JT”. It was just ME and that felt good. The best part of the trip was remembering how a good friend can inspire you to follow a dream, give you perspective on a current issue and make you feel more comfortable in your own skin.

As we left Atlanta, I couldn't help but wonder if we would talk more this year than last? Even as I considered the odds, I wasn’t worried. I realized that it’s not the number of phone calls we make or letters we send that keep our friendship alive. We simply need to make time for each so that we can remember who we used to be and who we would like to become. Preferably, over drinks, dinner and laughter.

Travel Details:

W Downtown - Modern, chic hotel. Cool rooms and lounges. Found a great deal on hotel website. Convenient shuttle to nearby restaurants.

Woodfire Grill - Top Chef restaurant. Enjoyed the five course tasting menu at the bar. Recommend the "Bitter End" cocktail if you are looking for a "bartender's drink".