3 Tips for New Bloggers...follow party etiquette

Do you consider the blogosphere a friendly place? Or is it more like showing up to a big party (very, very late) where you don't know a soul? The latter, duh. I find that it's helpful to follow some basic party principles when you are the newbie in the group.

1) Talk to others!
Sounds simple, right? Yes, it's a bit scary to leave a comment on a complete stranger's website, but comments are how you start a conversation. When you are at a party, do you approach the most popular person there and expect them to dive right into a conversation with you? Of course not. We all remember high school. You look for a small group of people and talk to the nicest person. If she doesn't engage you, find another, and another, etc.

2) Find the host!
At a party, you can always count on knowing the host and getting at least five minutes of her time. She did, after all, invite you. Hosts always want to know who showed up to their parties; it makes them appreciate you more. Plus, she may even introduce you to a few more guests. In the blog world, I've found the warmest welcome at a social site for mommy bloggers called Socialmoms.com (formerly twittermoms.com). I create a profile, read other mom blogs and participated in group discussions. Recently, my suggestion for a blogging topic was selected and I felt just like in junior high when the popular girls in school sat by me at recess.

3) Remember to talk!
Just like at a real party, no one wants to talk to person who's become mute. People want to talk to interesting people who have something to say. In order to engage in the conversation, you must blog and on a regular basis. Then, try and find some other people who are talking about the same thing and try to connect.

If you visit my blog, you will learn that I don't have a huge entourage. I'm not vying for the most popular award. I just showed up to the party myself. But, I'm making the rounds, meeting new people. Channeling Gretchen Wilson, "I'm here for the party!" Come by and say hi!

Do you  have other suggestions for new bloggers? Share them here or with other moms on Socialmoms.com.